Message-ID: <432eli9704011034@qz.little-neck.ny.us> X-Archived-At: Newsgroups: alt.sex.stories.moderated,alt.sex.stories Followup-To: alt.sex.stories.d Organization: The Committee To Thwart Spam Approved: X-Moderator-Contact: Eli the Bearded X-Story-Submission: From: rankamatr@aol.com (RankAmatr) Subject: REPOST: Have you ever committed incest? #6 The Thoroughly Disreputable Incest Digest ========================================= Issue 06 Even though incest is considered society's #1 taboo, it is likely one of our best kept secrets... It is my belief that if the real facts were to be known, in proportion to other sexual behaviors, it is more likely that an individual would have had sexual relations with a brother or sister, than to have perhaps engaged in homosexual activities or other shared experiences. I am interested in hearing from individuals who have had sexual relations with a family member, and what direct and actual impact this type of an relationship has had on you. I am not looking for details of respective experiences, but just simply; ...with whom (Mother, Father, Sister, Brother, etc.), ...at what age, ...who 'wooed' who, ...how you feel about your experience(s) today... You can be assured the confidentiality of any information provided will not be compromised. If you've had an experience you would like to share, please direct your responses to: RankAmateur@writeme.com The following are stories I have received so far. Thank you. =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=--- I don't know if my experience really qualifys as "incest" or not. In my family, of which I am the first one "out of the sticks" it is not at all uncommon for 2nd or 3rd cousins to marry. I guess that is the reason that when I watched the movie "Deliverance" the first time I certainly had more in common with the "hill folk" than I did with the city slickers from Atlanta out polluting the river. Anyway, when I was in High School, which was down in Texas, several of my cousins also attended school with me. It is a difficult enough time for most teenagers to contend with sex to begin with, but with cousins it is possible to achieve a level of communication that you just can not achieve with other friends. My cousins, three girls on my dad's side of the family and two on my mother's and I were all very close. I was a good looking youngman and although I had very few problems getting dates, my cousins and I were always very close. At different times I had sex with all five of them. Two of them, one on my dad's side and one on my mom's are the same age as I am, while the others are one to two years older or younger. The first one that I had sex with is 2 years older than me. She was a majorette and cheerleader. We were close to begin with and sex seemed on the natural thing. I guess she told the others and one after the other they all approached me. Never did I actually insist that we have sex. For all of them I was their first. In one repect I should feel lucky, in others I guess I should be ashamed. Most of this occurred when I was between 16 and 18 years of age. I joined the military in 1969 and went to Viet Nam. It was the only right thing to do then. When I came back most of the girls were married or living in other towns. I don't think it really had a detrimental effect on any of us. We are still a very close family and we see each other every few years, usually when one of the old folks passes away. Only one of them has ever approached me again and this happened at a family reunion in the late 1970's. She had a bad first marriage. Late in the evening she and I were setting around drinking beer. The subject of her first time came up and she said she always remembered it as one of the nice things between us. Before we knew it we were doing it again. The amazing part of the whole thing is that sex seemed to be the right thing for us to do. It is entirely different than sex with your spouse, for one thing it is a lot more intense. I don't know if it is the taboo aspect of it or what, but sex with my cousins was the most physically exciting sex I have ever had. Is it bad to look forward to such and experience? I don't think so. Jeff Foxworthy sure knows about it, "A redneck goes to the family reunion looking for girls." ha. =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=---- My cousin and I had a sexual relationship from the time we were 5 till 17 yrs old. He lived with us for a time and was very much a brother. We started experimenting at 5 in an exploratory way. We thought nothing of it being wrong. By the time we discovered it was not "correct" for close relatives let alone boys to play like this, we figured that it still felt good. We came to both like girls but were not old enough to date. So we satisfied each other. Soon we were great at oral sex and perfofmed it on each other regularly. We never had what you'd call a romantic attachment. I first had sex with a girl when Iwas 9 with a friend down the street I'd known all my life. This made us feel grown up, on top of having something fun, secret, and special between us. We did it a few more times at sleep- overs and such. By the time I was 13, I had become an open minded boy. I knew a lot about sex as I read a lot and felt I had some experience. It was at this time my sister (12) became sexually aggressive. She knew nothing of my experiences. She seemed to like to wrestle in underwear, try to catch you in the shower and sneak peeks. We went on holidays and we got to stay in our own motel room next to our parents. Like a lot of conversations between kids late at night, it turned to sex and under the pretense of curiosity or practice or whatever it led to actual sex. I found the wierdest part the first kiss. We had already touched each other all over, but I'd never kissed anybody properly before. She kissed me first. I wanted to kiss someone for a long time but when it happened, for a second all I could think of was this was my little kid sister not a real woman. I kissed her back so she wouldn't think there was something she did wrong. The third time something broke then we couldn't get enough. Suddenly we were giddy all the more because we were siblings. We did everything. The next day we were a bit shy but blown away by the fact we had a lover who'd been there all along. We knew we'd do it again and we did. We were very good together. By the time we were 16 we started cooling to each other. She got a boyfriend, then I got a girlriend and we became ordinary teenagers. My cousin and I still played a bit but it knocked off by the time I was 17. My sister never knew. We all went on to do fine with our lives and are happy in our relationships. I ended up an average hetero.. I'm glad we learned from each other when we did and I feel there's nothing wrong with it. I'll bet a lot more goes on than we know. So long as people with dirty minds don't make the individuals feel bad about themselves, its just growing up. I feel we know each better because of it and are more bonded. Kids do have sex lives and as long as its between them on their own terms that's fine. And if your sister is attractive, don't try and tell me you haven't caught yourself checking her out when she walks out in summer in a bikini! =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=--- If you've had an experience you would like to share, please send e-mail to RankAmateur@writeme.com. Anonymity guaranteed. [Thanks to 548@prostar.com, the originator of this survey.] "You can't do this to me ... I'm a tourist ... I'm an American ... 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